Budget Like a Rich Person

Budget Like a Rich Person

Are you spending money like a wealthy person? 

If not, you might think: “I can’t spend money like a wealthy person, I don’t have enough.” 

If so, this statement might reveal a clue why you’re not wealthy yet. 

Most of the time, we think about being wealthy and have a long list of things that we want to buy when (or if) we become wealthy. 

We view wealth as an opportunity to buy anything that we want: a new car, a nice house, a wardrobe that costs the same as most people’s mortgages, so on and so on ... 

However, this isn’t how wealthy people spend money—this is how broke people spend money.

If you ever want to become wealthy, you must start by learning how to spend the money that you already have. 

The Mindset of the Rich 

Rich people don’t spend money, they invest it. 

They purchase things that add value to their lives and then repeat that pattern until they build a substantial amount of wealth. 

They invest in things that will provide them with additional income streams; they invest in things which will add economic value to their lives and most of all; they invest in their own education. 

So they never worry about whether they can afford things, because they’re more focused on how much something will make for them. 

That’s how they got wealthy, and that’s how they stay that way. 

They don’t overspend and run up excessive debt buying extravagant things. 

Most of them pay cash for their cars and drive something secondhand or economical. 

Those people who you see driving around in expensive, gas-guzzling cars are usually living paycheck to paycheck. 

Their “wealth” is just a show of extravagant things that are draining money out of their bank account. 

Where’s all that money going? 

It’s going to wealthy people. 

It’s going to the people who have money because they love to invest and to make money more than they love to spend it. 

That’s the difference in how wealthy people spend money and how broke people spend money. 

Here’s what you can do about it: 

Stop trying to live like a rich person! 

The first step to getting rich is to stop trying to live like a rich person. 

Give up all the desires to buy a fancy car and a huge, expensive house. Those desires are being exploited by people who love to sell those things. 

These people get you to take out loans and mortgages to buy the things that you want. 

Then you pay them interest and they reinvest that money by loaning it to someone else who’s trying to live like a rich person. 

If you want to get rich, start focusing on the things which rich people use to get to where they are: investing money, staying out of debt, having money work for them and, most of all, selling and promoting. 

If this last one made you feel sick, think about this: most people hate to sell, but they love to buy—and most people are broke. 

Meanwhile, few people love to sell, and only a few people are wealthy. 

Is this a coincidence? 

Don’t think so. Think about it, if you’re buying and someone else is selling, they’re the ones making the money. 

These are the super-rich people you see and wonder if they’re just lucky or if they know something that everyone else doesn’t. 

It’s not what they know, it’s what they do: they love to sell, and they buy to add value. 

Broke people hate to sell, they hate salespeople, and the very thought of selling turns their stomach ... but they love to buy. 

You just learned one of the most important secrets about becoming wealthy. 

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Thinking Yourself Rich - Does It Work?

Thinking Yourself Rich - Does It Work?

Can you think yourself rich? If so, how do you go about it? To answer this question, you must first determine what your subconscious thoughts are regarding money.

Your thoughts create your reality. Money itself has no power; it is neither good nor bad. Your thoughts and ideals about money determine your beliefs about money. 

If you grew up struggling with money and thinking money was the root of all evil, then you probably still think that at some level. Many of us get so caught up in the stress and strife of life that we end up repelling money because we spend much of our time focusing on all of our problems.

10 Relationship Headaches and How to Fix Them

10 Relationship Headaches and How to Fix Them

Do you have what you believe would be a perfect relationship if it weren’t for a few nagging little problems?

If so, let’s see if these 10 solutions to common relationship headaches are what you need to turn things around.

1. Low Trust

Low trust is the most frustrating thing to deal with in a relationship because it brings everything else into question. 

Fortunately, low trust is also easy to fix if you take on a proactive mindset by clarifying expectations up front and keeping open lines of honest communication. 

2. Neediness 

Few things are more frustrating than the feeling that your partner is suffocating you with neediness. 

If this is the case, step back and ask yourself where you need to draw physical and emotional boundaries. 

You might even realise that not drawing boundaries is opening the door for your partner to suffocate you. 

3. Boundary Issues 

No matter how close your relationship is, it’s important that you have a clear distinction of where your personal boundaries are. 

If your partner isn’t respecting your individual right to make choices, to have opinions and to have your own personal space, the best thing to do is make those things clear and stand your ground. 

If you do this, your partner will learn to respect your boundaries. 

4. Social Circle Clashes 

Does your partner have their own social circle that you can’t stand? If so, it’s important that you don’t try to remove your partner’s friends from his or her life. 

Instead, clarify your feelings towards the friends whom you don’t like and give your partner some space to spend time alone with those people. 

Your partner can then decide which relationship is more important. 

5. Money Problems 

Money problems are probably the biggest cause of relationship headaches and are the cause for most divorces in North America. 

However, you can solve most of your money problems by keeping your finances separate and splitting things 50/50. 

This will help each person maintain a personal sense of responsibility and independence. 

6. Lack of Understanding 

Lack of understanding is at the root of most relationship problems and can lead to a lack of trust, boundary issues and all kinds of other problems. 

The best way to cultivate understanding is to obey relationship expert Dr Steven Covey’s advice: “Seek first to understand, and then to be understood.” If you do this, your partner will most likely reciprocate. 

7. Boredom 

This might sound funny, but boredom often causes infidelity and apathy in a relationship. 

You can cure boredom easily by making a commitment to do things together that you’ve both not done before and be spontaneous. 

A great way to overcome boredom is to commit to a weekly date night and a monthly activity where you try something new together. 

8. Apathy 

Indifference is the kiss of death in any relationship, but it usually comes about because of emotional exhaustion and frustration in trying to “make things work.” 

If apathy has already become a problem in your relationship, the best place to start is by shaking things up and adding some excitement. 

Once you do this, you need to commit immediately to clarifying expectations, drawing boundaries, and cultivating an understanding with your partner. 

9. Sexual Dissatisfaction 

This is a huge deal for men and usually a much bigger deal for women than they allow themselves to express openly. 

It’s important that you never take your sex life for granted and never assume that it completely satisfies your partner. 

Having a healthy sex life requires consistent communication and creativity. 

10. Coldness 

If your partner is being cold to you, it's natural to become defensive and on guard with your feelings. 

However, the cause of coldness is often a feeling of being misunderstood. This is a time to practise the art of seeking first to understand, and then to be understood (good old Dr Covey… ).

The more understood your partner feels, the more he or she will open up and warm up to you again. 

Now you have the tools to deal with 10 of the most potentially difficult problems in relationships. 

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5 Secrets of Blissful Relationships

5 Secrets of Blissful Relationships

Have you ever seen a couple who had been together for 30 or 40 years and wondered what their secret was?

You’re probably aware that a blissful relationship is something difficult to come by these days. 

However, once you learn these five secrets of blissful relationships and put them into practice, you’ll amaze yourself at just how easy it can be to have a great relationship. 

1. Clear Expectations 

Clear expectations are the foundation of trust, compassion and understanding. You hear a lot of talk about trust these days, but finding a person you can trust to be in a close relationship with you is difficult. 

Contrary to common belief, dishonesty is less often the cause of mistrust than ambiguous and unclear expectations. 

If you and your partner are unclear about what the expectations of the relationship are (for both sides), you’re left with only assumptions ... and assumptions almost always lead to disappointments. We perceive them as violations of trust. 

2. Great Sex 

Maybe people don’t talk about this one much but the human body is biologically wired for sexual bliss ... and that will not change. 

While great sex isn’t a principle on which you can build an entire relationship, it adds a delightful dimension that few couples ever get to find. 

What’s the secret to having a great sex life? Foremost is open and honest communication about what each person wants. 

Biologically, sex works out pretty well and without a lot of extra effort because we’re wired that way. But making it great requires clear communication and reciprocity. And speaking of reciprocity ... 

3. Reciprocity 

There is no such thing as something for nothing, and this will apply to pretty much every area of life: your financial life, your relationships, your health, your career and your emotional wellbeing. 

If one partner is giving too much, and the other is taking too much, the relationship is always on its way downhill. 

However, if you focus on meeting your partner’s needs according to his or her expectations (instead of your own), your partner will be much more likely to reciprocate. 

Again, this is one reason clear expectations are so important. 

Many people try to practise reciprocity, but instead of giving their partner what they need, they give based on what they ASSUME they need. 

Reciprocity requires clear expectations to make a relationship blissful. 

4. Playfulness 

Life is too short to be in a relationship where you can’t have fun and be a little playful with your partner. 

One of the greatest joys in adult experience is to act a little childlike, and you need someone in your life who will share this experience with you. 

Of course, there are many different types of senses of humour. 

It’s important to find someone who thinks how you do and who finds humour in the same things. 

5. Perpetual Courtship 

Too many couples start off on a great note by working hard to please each other during the courting stage of the relationship, only to slack off once the “new” wears off. 

Make a commitment to court your partner every day of your relationship, even if you’ve been together for decades. 

This will inspire reciprocity and, together with the above four principles, will help you build a blissful relationship.

Is negativity hindering your relationship? 

Do you sometimes treat your spouse in a way that you know isn’t right? Or do you ever think “No one will ever marry me or want to be with me”? 

You could be a victim of negative thoughts, and they are not all inside your head! 

Negative thoughts are ALL AROUND US: in the media, at the workplace and sometimes in our home. 

You can use this revolutionary software that blocks out negativity and replaces bad thoughts with positive affirmations that help you achieve your goals and live a happy life. 

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Are Vision Boards the Key to Unlimited Success?

Are Vision Boards the Key to Unlimited Success?

Vision boards are a visual representation of all of your hopes and dreams. 

You can make a vision board by cutting out photos or pictures of things you would like to attract into your life. 

A vision board is basically a collage that acts as a reminder of the kind of life you would like to be living. 

Vision boards are a simple concept that can work to help you make your dreams a reality. 

Vision boards are a treasure map or goal-setting device that can help you supercharge your powers of manifestation. 

Made popular during the famous movie called “The Secret,” but the truth of it is that vision boards have been around for years. 

Let Your Emotions Flow

They base the concept of a vision board on your emotions and the idea that when you see images of the kind of life you would like to lead, that this helps you manifest those images into your life. 

We base the vision board on the law of attraction and the concept you draw into your life those things you focus upon. 

By creating a vision board, you are creating the life you want to be leading, and by focusing on that vision board, you can draw those things into your life. 

Your brain is a receiver of images, and by creating a vision board, you give your brain something to focus on. 

Your subconscious mind works much better with pictures and images, so creating a vision board is a great way to help you pave your way to success. 

The goal of the vision board is to evoke an emotional response, so you feel the feelings that you would feel as if you had already achieved your goal. 

The feeling or emotional response may just be the key to unlimited success because the more you evoke the feelings and emotions, the faster you will you get to your intended goal. 

What’s Important to You?

The mere sight of your vision board should evoke a passionate response from you, and you should stage your vision board somewhere where you will see it often. 

By reflecting on it and focusing on it throughout the day, you will bathe your subconscious mind in the feelings and emotions that you would feel as if you had already achieved your goal. 

You don’t want to set your vision board up somewhere where people can make fun of you, so if you are self-conscious about this work, then put your vision board somewhere private. 

To create your vision board, you will need some poster board or foam board. You can cut pictures out of magazines or print them off of the computer or Internet. 

Real estate magazines and car brochures work well too. Arrange your pictures like a collage and tape them or glue them to the board. 

It’s important to make sure that the pictures you use evoke an emotional response because that is the key to making vision boards work for you. 

You should get excited when you look at your board because this is the life you will step into. The more you believe you will achieve your hopes and dreams, the faster you will get there. 

The Power of the Visual

When creating your vision board, ask yourself what kind of pictures best represent the life you want to be living. 

You can also think about what kind of car you want to be driving or what kind of house you want to live in. Perhaps your dream is to travel; if so, use pictures of places that you would like to travel to. 

It’s important to always keep your vision board fresh as well because you may change what it is you want. You could even use a whiteboard and magnets if you want to create a board that is dynamic and changeable. 

Vision boards can be an important tool, and they just might be the key to your ultimate success. The point of a vision board is to create a visual snapshot of the kind of life you would like to be living so you can reflect upon that image as much as possible. 

The most important part of a vision board is that feeling of passion you get when you look at it. You should feel an emotional tug at your heart when you look at your pictures. 

You should see yourself in that room, sitting on the sofa having a cup of tea or coffee. You should be able to picture yourself living that life in every way. 

You should believe in the heart of your heart that you will arrive at your destination no matter what. When you commit 100 percent to your goal, there is no telling how quickly you might arrive at your destination. 

The vision board is your personal treasure map, so make it a good one because dreams really do come true. 

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10 Ways to Improve Your Love Life!

10 Ways to Improve Your Love Life!

Is your romantic relationship in a rut? If so, you and your partner are no doubt searching for techniques that can quickly and rekindle that spark once again.

Though it may take some time, attention and effort to accomplish this feat, it will be well worth it – as no one wants to be in a cold and passionless partnership!

So, to help speed you on the way towards restoring your romance to its first lustre, here are 10 ways to improve your love life.

#1: Try a New Activity Together

Sharing the ins and outs of daily life is a way to stay meaningfully connected with your partner, but it can cause tensions, friction and resentments to build.

What’s a good way to ease these?

If you think back to when you were dating, you likely tried some fun activities or events that you could share and enjoy.

Perhaps you went to see a favourite band, ate at a fancy restaurant, took walks on the beach or had a romantic picnic.

Over time, you may have pushed these special times out of your schedule because of the normal hustle and bustle of life.

Why not attempt to add these types of activities back into your relationship?

Go to an exotic restaurant where you can eat with your hands and share food or go out dancing if you haven’t been in a while (or always wanted to go).

Or, you could go hiking together or take in a show.

Anything to shake up your routine and help you relax and reconnect.

#2: The Little Things Matter

Boosting your love life doesn’t require a fancy night out on the town. You can show your affection by leaving a one sentence note for them to find in their briefcase or purse.

Or, you could make their favourite dessert (or buy it if you’re not good in the kitchen).

Even surprising them with a small gift out of the blue can mean a great deal.

#3: Add Spontaneity Back to Date Night

You probably know couples who’ve been going on virtually the same date night over and over for years. Maybe they eat dinner at the same restaurant and then take in a movie.

Your love life may suffer from this same monotonous trend, so shake things up!

Try to get outside of your boring and comfortable routine and be creative with date night.

Perhaps you could eat at a pop up restaurant you found on social media, rent kayaks and go paddling or even take a painting class.

#4: Start Dreaming Again

Do you remember when you used to stay up half the night talking about your plans? You may wonder where those days went and think you’ll never recapture that feeling of a shared goal ever again.

You probably work together every day paying bills, getting the kids off to school, making dinner, doing yard work, and so on.

Yet, these mundane activities don’t capture your imagination and sense of adventure.

Don’t fall prey to the trap that you and your partner have already accomplished your greatest goals.

Instead, start talking about your hopes and dreams once again.

Even go a step further and make a vision board of all the places you’d like to see, your dream home and experiences you want your family to enjoy.

You’ll amaze yourself at how this single change can powerfully infuse passion and creativity back into your relationship, almost like magic.

#5: Get Flirty!

Long-term relationships have a tendency to get, well, bland. This doesn’t have to be the case! In fact, some couples grow closer, more intimate and deeper in love with each passing year.

While mutual respect and deeply shared beliefs and goals are the bedrock of this deep-seated love, a good dose of playful flirting probably doesn’t hurt either.

Make it a point to flirt with your beau when the opportunity arises.

You could lace your language with double entendres, start sending them sexy text messages, or just make eyes at them while you prepare dinner.

#6: Talk About Your Turn-Ons

People are often embarrassed about talking with their partner openly and honestly about their turn-ons.

Keeping the playbook of what gets your motor going to yourself isn’t helping anyone - so try hard to communicate this vital information to your partner.

Your (or their) tastes may have changed and evolved, so check in regularly to make sure you’re giving them what they need for a satisfying love life.

You don’t even have to communicate this with words, which can sometimes be awkward.

Instead, reinforce what works for you with body language or even “lip language” - show your partner what you like, so they can provide it.

#7: Turn up the heat in the Bedroom

All the previous tips can help thaw any frost or break up boredom in your relationship. These can often make things in the bedroom much more enjoyable on its own.

However, you may still need to make a renewed effort in this department by bringing new ideas and experiences into your sensual time together.

How? You can use candles to heighten the mood or even incorporate sweets like strawberries and chocolate into your time in bed.

Heighten the pleasure from touch and lengthen your foreplay to increase anticipation and your enjoyment.

You can even begin by giving your partner a sensual massage or even giving role playing a try if that is appealing to you.

Focus on being a giving and generous lover to your partner – for more meaningful and satisfying sex for you both.

#8: Plan a Romantic Get-Away

From time to time, getting away from it all can make an immense difference in your love life. So, why not plan a long weekend trip to a quiet destination that’s away from it all?

There you can unwind and just enjoy each other’s company, taking long walks, talking or just staying inside for more steamy pursuits.

A bed and breakfast or nice hotel should do the trick, and be sure to unplug your iPhone, laptop and the TV. The point is to focus on your partner and slow down for 2-3 days.

#9: Add Adventurous Sex!

Another way to boost your love life is to add some adventurous sex to the mix!

You could have sex in places you’ve never tried before, like on the kitchen floor or other rooms beside just the bedroom.

If you’re a risk-taker (or your partner is), you could even go for sex outside.

Just make sure that nobody will get an eyeful, so choose a secluded spot.

Finally, if your partner has always had a sexual fantasy that you’ve been too conservative to try, consider giving it a go (as long as it’s respectful and appropriate).

#10: Surprise Them at Work

Can’t remember the last time you showed up at your partner’s workplace to surprise them? If so, then it has been too long!

You don’t have to disrupt their day or their colleagues – stopping in for 2 minutes with food from their favourite restaurant or a bouquet is more than enough.

Or, you can just pop in to kiss your partner and tell them how much they mean to you. Either way, they’ll likely be feeding off this sign of your love for days to come.

These 10 ways to improve your love life can have a tremendous impact upon your relationship, and they’re not complicated.

Cultivating passion requires effort, but even small changes can sometimes have a profound effect.

Taken as a whole, these techniques can help you and your partner to reconnect – for a satisfying love life that has plenty of passion to spare.

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The Power of Affirmations: How to Talk to Yourself

The Power of Affirmations: How to Talk to Yourself
Have you ever considered just how important your self-talk really is for your personal growth and self-confidence? If not, just imagine what kind of influence your friends have on you when they talk to you ... or how much your parents had when you were growing up.

Now imagine this: You’re around yourself more often than anyone else on this planet. That ought to give you an idea of just how important it is to use empowering words when you speak to yourself. 

This takes practice, though, and if you aren’t really choosing your self-talk, you’ve probably developed some bad habits. The following “affirmation workout” will help you undo these habits and form empowering and inspiring self-talk.

What’s the Truth about the “Self-Help” Industry?

What’s the Truth about the “Self-Help” Industry?
Are you bombarded with so many self-help techniques you don’t know where to start?

It is easy to get caught up in the excitement and drama of the self-help industry because they all promise to help you reinvent your life. 

Much like email marketing, most self-help genres promise big things. 

There are a lot of legitimate caring people in the self-help industry that can really help you make some amazing changes in your life. 

However, there are also just as many scam artists trying to sell you a product or an idea that can change your life.

It is easy to get sucked into empty promises that end up costing you a lot of money. 

People spend big money on self-help products, and the truth of the matter is that women are the target audience. 

Americans spend over 11 billion dollars annually in the self-help industry, and that is a lot of money. 

There is a never-ending list of people who promise to help you change your life from coaches to self-help gurus, and they all play on one thing, fear. 

They talk about our shortcomings and make us feel as if we desperately need their help. 

The problem is that this supposed “help” costs us a lot of money. 

You could spend hundreds, if not thousands of dollars, on programs that may not really help you at all. 

From CDs to books to videos to online classes and seminars, how can you possibly choose which amazing program is right for you? That is the million-dollar question. 

Where Did It All Start?

The term “self-help” dates as far back as 1859, when a Scottish social reformer published the very first book on self-improvement called “Self-Help” of all things! 

Many ancient cultures, as far back as ancient Greece and Egypt, used the idea that people could heal themselves, and we still promote that ideal even today. 

The infomercial sector plays on people’s emotions, making big promises and also costing big money. 

Let’s face it: We are all looking for that magic solution that can finally help us overcome our problem, once and for all. 

All of this comes down to one thing: sales. 

Everyone is merely trying to sell you something. They make empty promises and show you heart wrenching testimonials. 

You see people who have lost hundreds of pounds, made millions of dollars and solved every problem known to man, and it only costs you $897 for a lifetime membership in this exclusive important club. 

There is a coach and trainer for everything, and they aren’t inexpensive either. 

Self-help scams aren’t restricted to the Internet either, because your email box is most likely full of exclusive offers. 

These same snake oil salesmen are also trying to get your attention in person through cleverly designed networking events where you network with other amazing people. 

The problem is that sometimes the same people who attend these events are also trying to sell you a product! 

Where does it end you might ask? 

How can you decide what to spend your hard-earned money on? That is a question only you can answer. 

Many self-help techniques use the same treatment, merely spinning it from a new angle.

How Do You Cut Through All The Crap?

The best advice I can give you is to suggest that you do your research. 

Get on the Internet and see what other people are saying about the specific product or service. 

There are some legitimate wonderful methods and some great teachers in the industry that can help you literally transform your life. 

Be wary of anyone trying to get you to attend an expensive seminar though because that is where a lot of these self-help gurus really make their money. 

I would be wary of anyone who is trying to get you to spend thousands of dollars on anything, especially a seminar. 

The fact of the matter is that sometimes we buy books based merely on a catchy title or photo. 

Marketing is BIG business, and they design the artwork to suck you in. We buy self-help books for everything from relationship issues to weight loss to addictions. 

People in the US buy approximately 13.5 million relationship self-help books every year alone.

Now I’m not saying that these products don’t work, but what I am saying is that they play on our weaknesses. 

Ask anyone you know, and they will most likely admit that they have a fully stocked library of books that they never finished reading. 

We all have good intentions, but the fact of the matter is that life often gets in the way, making us distracted before we have time to finish the book or try out the product. 

Even doctors and health care professionals are in on the game because the mental health industry is also big business. 

Everyone out there has a new book or a new method. People make big promises. 

What Should You Do Instead?

The best advice I can give you is to start slowly and watch how much money you spend. 

You might be better off taking a trip to your local library, so you can browse the self-help section spending no money at all!

There are some excellent products out there that can help you transform your life in incredible ways, and many of them work well. 

The trick is to commit to them and follow through. If you don’t read the book or never get to the exercises and get busy with life, then they probably won’t work. 

Stop and ask yourself what it is you are trying to fix. You could even meditate on it and ask your mind to tell you or show you if this product or service is right for you. 

Your mind is an incredible, untapped wealth of knowledge, and you can ask it anything you like. 

That is the real truth of the self-help industry because the fact of the matter is that you CAN help yourself, and you need not spend thousands of dollars in which to do so. 

Be careful where you spend your hard-earned money. The best advice is to start slowly and commit to following through with whatever method you start. 

Use your intuition to gauge if the product or service is right for you. 

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3 Chakra Healing Myths Busted Right Open

3 Chakra Healing Myths Busted Right Open
If you visit an upscale day spa, you might notice a “chakra balancing” treatment on the list of services.

You may not be sure what your chakras were, or if they needed balancing, but it’s definitely intriguing! 

Maybe you have even had your chakras dowsed with a pendulum. 

Watching a crystal spin above your heart area is interesting, and it’s not just a party trick. 

I have hands-on experience. Allow me to give you a little insight before you slap down the cash for a treatment that you don’t really know if you need. 

Your chakra system comprises seven main energy centres that live along the spinal column. 

Although they are less dense than tissue or bone, they are one of the major ways that your body receives energy from the Universal Energy Field and assimilates it for your use. 

The energy centres govern many aspects of your physiology, including organ systems and psychological tendencies, and reflect the well-being of the individual. 

Each has a frequency, a colour and a sound, moving in a clockwise direction. 

I know it’s weird to understand the nonphysical parts of you, so think of each chakra like a vortex or funnel, which is a few inches wide at the top, and the motion of this vortex pulls energy down the funnel and into the body. 

There is a front and rear aspect for each chakra, and they extend into your energy field a few inches above the body on certain points along the spinal column. 

Myth #1 - Chakras are supposed to be balanced and perfect

Many of the diagrams in books or online show the seven major chakras as they would be in an ideal world - perfect. 

They are all a similar shape, size and spin effortlessly with a colourful glow specific to each chakra. 

We live in the real world and hopefully understand that nothing is perfect. 

The real world is messy, unpredictable and above all else, constantly changing. 

This is also how your chakras behave. They are flexible and responsive, adjusting to psychological and physical factors, which affect us every day. 

Your chakras have a baseline unique to you and reflects your current emotional and physical patterns, but this baseline can change over time as you grow and change. 

Insisting that your chakras always be “perfect” is not productive in the real world. It’s important to honour where you are in your process and to encourage opening and stability, no matter how you measure up to a diagram or picture in a book. 

You are not a picture. 

When you are on a healing table and a practitioner balances your chakras, he or she is imposing a mental ideal on your very real physiology. 

They may not be respecting where you are in your process and might force your chakras to be more open than they are naturally capable of in that moment. 

After the treatment, your chakra system probably won’t be able to integrate and hold the work that they tried to impose on you. 

Your chakras will go back to where they were before the treatment and may be a little wonky for a bit. 

Myth #2 - Balancing my chakras will improve my health

It might be easy to think if my chakra system affects my organs, then I will be healthier if my chakras are perfect. 

Unfortunately, it’s not that easy. The chakras are evidence of where you are physically, emotionally and psychologically, and it is only by working on those issues that your chakras will shift and change. 

Believe me, if there were a magic switch that could make you perfect, I’d turn it on for you, but true healing requires a shift in consciousness. 

Yeah, I said it. Be intimately involved in your own healing process to reap the rewards. 

No one can do it for you. When you experience illness, it is your body calling out for you to pay attention. 

Honour it. Listen to it. The answers you need for your healing will come through your consciousness, not just your chakras. 

Get to know yourself, and you’ll move through your own health issues, rather than giving that job to someone else. 

Myth #3 - I have no power over my chakras. 

Most people think they have no real authority over their physiology. We are constantly turning to experts to tell us what is wrong with us and how to fix it. 

While there is much that a healer can do to help you understand where you are and to help you along the way, it is up to you to change the beliefs that are negatively affecting you. 

There are lots of simple exercises, similar to many common yoga postures, which people have used for centuries to shift the psychological or physiological health of an area governed by a chakra. 

Sometimes all it takes to shift a negative or unhealthy pattern is just giving it some positive attention and a concerted effort to move toward something healthier. 

For instance, if you are experiencing a sluggish second chakra and not feeling that romantic spark toward your partner, having that chakra balanced will have some effect on your love life, but not as much as if you practise something like belly dancing. 

Get that part of the body moving for yourself and your chakras will respond in kind. 

Another person can’t change your life for you, especially if you have invested behaviours and beliefs in a particular issue for many years. 

Actively working with your issues, however, will positively reflect in your entire chakra system, and you will feel better on many levels. 

So the next time you’re in a spa, get the Mani/Pedi, and skip the chakra balancing... 

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Double Your Productivity: 7 Secrets

Double Your Productivity: 7 Secrets
Are you on the path to ultimate life success?

Why leave it to chance? 

Do you think it’s possible to double your productivity as early as this month? 

If you think this sounds impossible, just think about this: As you’re reading this, people who are no smarter or more hardworking than you are making millions of dollars a year, or even a month! 

This means that the only possibility is that they know a few secrets about productivity which are enabling them to do a lot more in a lot less time. 

Let’s look at seven secrets which you can start using today: 

1. Smart Outsourcing 

Most of the time-wasting activities in your life or your work are probably things that someone else could handle on your behalf. 

These are all things that you need to consider outsourcing to someone else. 

Even if you have to pay the person, consider the cost of the time that you would spend doing that task yourself. 

If something is taking you 5 hours to do, and that’s 5 hours you could spend making $200, you’d be better off paying someone $50 to do it so you could focus on tasks which bring in more income. 

2. Selective Ignorance 

How much of your time do you waste consuming information that you’ll never use? 

For example, surfing the web, reading and responding to emails, reading the news, etc. are all activities which can easily become time-wasting information addictions. 

That’s not to mention that much of the information you’re exposed to is trying to take MORE of your time (or your money) or be very negative. 

Cultivate the art of selective ignorance and see just how much more time and concentration you’ll save. 

3. Batch Processing

Set aside time blocks during which you can complete all of your tasks in batches. 

For instance, read and respond to emails between 2pm and 4pm on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, and spend the last 20 minutes of the day organising for the next day. 

Instead of multitasking, focus on one job at a time until you complete it. 

This is effective - a recent university study revealed that people being interrupted by phone calls and email scored lower than people stoned… 

Avoid this mind drain by creating time blocks for completing tasks in batches and eliminating the distractions from your life. 

4. Prioritising Your Daily Activities 

Every time that you start out your day, it’s crucial that you have your plan for it written on paper first. 

Write your daily tasks in order of priority (use the above batching process) and according to your larger long-term goals. 

This will help you keep the first things first and avoid getting bogged down in what Steven Covey calls “the thick of thin things.” 

For best results, make your priority list at the end of each day, so you’ll be fully ready before the next day even begins. 

5. Develop a Sense of Urgency 

A strong internal sense of urgency compels one person to finish a task in less than half the time that it would take someone who had no sense of urgency. 

Most people, by nature, allow a task to swell in complexity and size according to the time that they have to complete it, or they put it off and scramble to finish everything at the last minute. 

A strong sense of personal urgency will compel you to start things as soon as possible and complete them long before your deadlines. 

6. Start the Day Off Right 

How you start off the day sets the pace for the rest of the day. If you start out checking emails, organising things on your desk and taking five trips to the bathroom, you lose more and more momentum with each task that isn’t directed towards completing your “meaty” task of the day. 

Better to hit the ground running with tasks that require a lot of energy and focus. 

This will also ensure that your later tasks are easier, less dreadful, and therefore less tempting to put off until the next day. 

7. Recreational Time 

Trying to go on and on taking no time off to rest your mind and your body is a certain way to stunt your ability to concentrate and to reduce your productivity. 

Take 15-20 minutes a day for meditation to clear your mind and make sure you set one day a week aside for recreational activities. 

TIP: Go through each of these seven steps, implementing one a day for the next week.

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My Favourite Inspirational Quotes

Unmissable Self Improvement Quotes
These are my all-time favourite inspirational quotes.

If you’re ever in need of inspiration, uplifting, or enlightenment, I recommend these to you.

The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today.
H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
Maya Angelou

Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success.
Swami Sivananda

Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.
Helen Keller

It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
Charles R. Swindoll

In order to succeed, we must first believe that we can.
Nikos Kazantzakis

Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.
Carol Burnett

Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.
E.E. Cummings

Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome.
Booker T. Washington

Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into a positive one.
Hans Selye

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
Mahatma Gandhi

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Overcoming Physical Limitations with Mental Beliefs

Overcoming Physical Limitations with Mental Beliefs
The mind is a powerful tool, and you can use it to overcome many things, including physical limitations according to some.

According to one Buddhist philosophy, the mind precedes all things, led by the mind and created by the mind. 

There is much written about healing mental and emotional issues with the mind, but what about healing and overcoming physical limitations? 

Is it possible to heal the body just by focusing the mind? 

It may just be. 

There are many ways you can use the power of your mind to help heal your body. 

You can use visualisations, guided imagery, hypnotherapy, affirmations and even laughter, believe it or not. 

The subconscious mind, which you can access through practices such as meditation and hypnosis, does not know the difference between reality and imagination.

So theoretically, you could program in just about anything. 

With enough repetition and persistence, you could technically heal yourself from any ailment. 

The biggest thing stopping most of us is our beliefs. We have a hard time believing that this is possible. 

Our belief system is a house of many colours. We build it up with beliefs that have accumulated over a lifetime. 

We store every emotion, every feeling and every experience we have ever had in our brilliant subconscious mind, and some even say, in our bodies. 

If we can’t clear out the emotional debris, the layers continue to build, creating sickness. 

The question remains as to if it is possible to overcome physical limitations using the power of your beliefs. 

There is a connection between the mind and the body, but is it strong enough to heal us? 

Scientifically, your brain has an amazing capacity to make you feel better because it can release powerful chemicals called endorphins, which are your brain’s feel-good chemicals. 

Laugh Your Way to Good Health

We’ve all heard the quote that laughter is the best medicine, but what does it mean? 

There has been a lot of research done on laughter and its ability to heal and restore the body and the truth of the matter is that laughter has many positive benefits. 

Laughter is nature’s own pain reliever, and it may, in fact, be much more effective than any drug you could ever purchase. 

Laughter can be a great stress-reliever and a pain reliever, and it is not just for fun because laughter can even enhance creativity and increase innovation. 

Laughter releases those powerful endorphins, and they not only make you happier, they can also heal your body. 

Norman Cousins, who wrote a book called “The Anatomy of an Illness,” developed a condition called Ankylosing Spondylitis. 

The doctors estimated that Norman’s chance of survival was approximately 1 in 500, so not very good. 

The story has it that Norman laughed his way back to health, which is both amazing and fascinating. 

Norman took massive doses of vitamin C and dismissed himself from the hospital. 

He then got an old-fashioned movie projector and a good supply of funny films. 

The very first night he began watching the films, he could reduce his pain significantly and found he could sleep for several hours completely pain-free. 

He continued this work for several weeks until finally he overcame his affliction. 

This is an incredible demonstration of the power of laughter, and it should be an inspiration to us all. 

Whether this is the placebo effect, it does not really matter because it worked. 

Norman lived another 26 years until he died at 78 from heart failure. 

It's Not Just Laughter Either

Meditation works similarly in activating a part of the brain in charge of the autonomic nervous system, which controls the body’s functions, such as blood pressure and digestion. 

Stress impacts and even compromises these same types of functions, so taking time to modulate these functions can naturally ward off stress-related conditions, such as heart disease, digestive problems and things like infertility. 

Practices like visualisation and even hypnotherapy work in much the same manner, helping one tap into the alpha brainwave frequency, which can help your body heal. 

You could literally visualise your way to good health by taking time every day to picture yourself enjoying good health.

You could take it a step farther and visualise healthy, pink lungs and healthy tissue. You could also visualise tiny little creatures eating away at your disease, helping your body’s immune system heal. 

The brain is a highly efficient system that connects to every single cell in your body. 

When you visualise or even laugh, your brain releases powerful healing endorphins, and there is no limit to the magic it can create. 

The best way to help yourself heal is to hold positive thoughts in your mind. 

Whether you do this with laughter or with visualisations or even with self-hypnosis does not really matter. 

What matters is that you believe with every fibre of your being that you can help your body heal. 

When you believe that, you will laugh your way to optimal health and wellness! 

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10 Chakra Healing Insights for Beginners

10 Chakra Healing Insights for Beginners
The chakras, which are the energy centres that run through your body, can have a powerful impact on your life.

There are seven main chakras, and each has a unique meaning and purpose.

The chakras work in harmony with one another, so it is important to keep them healthy and balanced.

We design chakra meditations to heal and balance the energy of your body. Simple visualisations can do this, or through toning or music.

We align each chakra with a colour, a musical note and other types of things, such as crystals or symbols, all of which you can visualise or listen to through meditation.

These energy systems of the body can help you or hurt you, depending on how they are spinning.

To be healthy and happy, you must journey through each chakra to realign your energy.

Once you balance each chakra, the emotional issues should relieve the corresponding physical issues.

Understanding and balancing this energy will help you bring power and balance back into your life, enabling you to live a more joyful and healthy life.

Taking the time to balance your energy will help dispel negativity energy and attract those things into your life and into your magnetic field that you so desire.

Let’s look at some amazing healing insights that the chakras can bring to you now.

* Healing Insight Number 1: The root chakra can help you overcome addictions. 

The root chakra, which helps you stay grounded and centred, can become unbalanced, causing you to abuse your body.

Instead of taking care of yourself, like a healthy well-balanced person would, you might eat too much, drink too much or chain-smoke.

Your body is your temple, and your root chakra may just be the key to a healthy body.

The root chakra governs your survival instinct and your basic needs, and if it is unbalanced, you may abandon ship and neglect your precious body.

The root chakra can also help you regain vitality and strength.

* Healing Insight Number 2: The sacral chakra can help you awaken your sexuality. 

The second chakra, also known as the sacral or spleen chakra, is in charge of your sexuality.

If this chakra becomes blocked or stuck, you may feel sexually repressed. This chakra can also cause frustration, tension and compulsiveness.

This chakra is the chakra of self-love and also of creativity, and it allows you to enjoy a sensuous and full life.

The sacral chakra can also help you overcome fertility issues and anything related to the sex organs.

* Healing Insight Number 3: The solar plexus chakra can help you feel more motivated and inspired. 

The third chakra is your power center, and it can help you live your best life.

If you have trouble concentrating or have a hard time saying no to people, you may need to balance this important power chakra.

The solar plexus chakra can also help you overcome digestive issues and stomach ulcers.

* Healing Insight Number 4: The heart chakra can help you find true love. If you have trouble with relationships, you’re not alone. 

The heart chakra is the centre of your energetic system, and it connects you to others through the emotion of love.

If this chakra is unbalanced, you may feel jealous, bitter, or even lonely.

Balancing the chakra of love can help you practise forgiveness and help you feel more compassionate.

This beautiful chakra, at the heart, is the seat of your soul and the centre of love.

The heart chakra can also help you breathe better, and it can aid in immune strengthening and cardiac issues.

* Healing Insight Number 5: The throat chakra can help you express yourself better and help you communicate more effectively. 

The fifth chakra, the throat chakra, also governs anything related to your vocal chords or your thyroid.

The fifth chakra can also help you if you suffer from frequent sore throats or colds because balancing this chakra can help you better manage these issues.

This important chakra helps you to have a rich and creative life because it allows you to express yourself.

* Healing Insight Number 6: The third-eye chakra can help you overcome headaches. 

This sixth chakra, also known as the brow chakra, is integral for good intuition and perceptiveness.

It also helps you overcome headache and vision problems.

This chakra is your connection to the spirit world and to your extrasensory perception.

* Healing Insight Number 7: The crown chakra can help you overcome depression. 

The seventh chakra, known as the crown chakra or thousand-petal lotus, can help you tap into your higher self and help you overcome issues like depression.

It can also help connect you to angels and spirits.

* Healing Insight Number 8: Balancing the chakras can help you release the past and transform your life. 

When you balance your chakras, you release things and emotions that no longer serve you.

Releasing these kinds of things can help you thrive, rather than merely survive.

* Healing Insight Number 9: Balancing your chakras can help you feel more confident and healthy in your own body. 

When you feel self-confident, you can feel more comfortable with whom you really are, and you feel more comfortable in your own skin.

* Healing Insight Number 10: Healing the heart chakra can help you better manage immune disorders, such as chronic fatigue syndrome. 

The heart chakra governs the circulatory system and anything related to the endocrine or the immune system.

Balancing your chakras can help you both achieve and maintain optimal health.

It might surprise you at how amazing you feel once you balance and clear your chakras.

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Think Your Way to a Better You

Think Your Way to a Better You
Can you think your way to a better you? Maybe. Thinking positively has a lot going for it!

According to the Law of Attraction, you reap what you sow: your thoughts become reality. The Law of Attraction states that whatever you focus on attracts to you. So if you focus on positive thoughts, you draw in positive things and positive situations. 

If you focus on negative things, then the opposite happens. There is some research in positive psychology that states that those who have a more positive and optimistic attitude often live longer and happier lives than their pessimistic counterparts.

How the Law of Attraction Really Works

How the Law of Attraction Really Works
How well is the law of attraction working for you?

If you’ve already seen the movie “The Secret” and all those super-successful people who seem to effortlessly attract what they want, you might think:

“There’s got to be more to it than just thinking.”

Well, guess what? There is!

I mean, surely you can’t just sit there and visualise what you want, turn yourself into a human magnet and watch it come into your life like magic.

So why are so many people talking about how effective the law of attraction is at manifesting what you want?

Because they understand something about how the law of attraction really works...

The Connecting Link

The law of attraction works because thoughts become things, but this doesn’t mean that thoughts of what you want will turn into the things you want.

Thoughts become beliefs, and beliefs become convictions which influence your actions. Those actions become results.

What results are we talking about? We’re talking about results consistent with the thoughts, which became beliefs, which became convictions, which became actions, which became the results.

Your thoughts are the “seeds” which you plant, and as you feed and nurture those seeds over time, they grow until they manifest themselves in actions.

As you know, a seed cannot produce something inconsistent with its intrinsic design.

As the Nazarene said: “You will know them by their fruit ... you can’t get grapes from thorn bushes and you can’t get figs from thistles.”

Your consistent thoughts will eventually manifest themselves in the results of your life.

The reason this doesn’t work for most people is because they forget about a little thing called time ... and that’s the key to making the law of attraction work for you.

What Season Are You In?

When you got up to make your breakfast this morning, you probably slapped something into the microwave, pushed a few buttons and within a few minutes had a nice hot meal.

However, that’s not how the law of attraction works with manifesting results in your life.

The law of attraction is a natural law, not a man-made idea. This means it’s subject to the same principles which all natural laws are subject too.

No amount of technology, willpower, belief or marketing will change this .... it’s an unchangeable reality of the universe which makes the law of attraction possible.

Remember, the thoughts that you “plant” when you’re practicing the law of attraction bring forth results the same way that a seed you sow grows into a plant.

This means you can plant, water, fertilise and nourish it for a long time before you even see it break ground.

This also means you can’t keep digging it up and planting something else every few hours or days.

Decide what you want, plant the seed and tend to it long enough for the law of attraction to do its job.

For most of us, the hardest thing to do is to decide what we want and to keep believing in it even when we don’t see immediate results.

Remember, it all begins with your thoughts ... so for a while that’s all you must go by.

Even if your actions seem contradictory to what you’re thinking, don’t give up.

As long as you keep planting the right seeds and following through with patience and consistency, you’ll reap a harvest in time.

Don’t forget to check out that news that everyone is buzzing about. It might just be the secret you are looking for to change your life.

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How to Disagree without Arguing

How to Disagree without Arguing
Do you want to reduce friction and negativity in your life?
People you interact with in life will disagree with you on at least a few things.

However, you probably also learned that it’s important to assert your own position without getting ensnared in a petty argument.

If you’re curious about the best way to disagree with someone without harming the relationship.

Here are six tips that you can start applying immediately.

1. Never Argue with a Fool

One of the most important ways to disagree with someone without causing an argument is to avoid interactions with people who argue just to argue.

If you can tell that someone is arguing a contrary opinion for the sake of engaging you in a debate, don’t waste your time. Acknowledge your own disagreement in the silence of your heart and move on.

People are seldom, if ever, persuaded by debating, and engaging someone who “just likes to debate” sets you on the same juvenile level as them.

There’s an old saying that goes “Never argue with a fool, because people watching from a distance may not be able to tell the difference.”

Remember this the next time someone disagrees with you and choose your battles wisely.

2. Focus on Understanding First

When someone argues with you, all they’re trying to do is get you to understand their point of view.

The problem is that many of us get confused and think if we affirm to someone that we understand them; we somehow agree with them.

The moment you focus on understanding others and showing to them you understand them, they’ll be much more likely to respect you ... even if you disagree.

3. Value the Truth above All

Sometimes, disagreeing with a person is not the best course of action. There will be times when you are wrong and the other person is right ... but your pride keeps you from admitting that you’re wrong.

The next time you find yourself in a discussion where you seem to disagree with the person, switch your focus and concentrate on making the point of the discussion a search for what’s true.

You never know what you might learn if you just learn to listen and focus on truth instead of on your opinion or the other person’s opinion.

4. Offer Your Opinion as “Food for Thought”

Instead of offering your opinion as being counter to the other person’s, offer it as “something to think about” instead.

This can be a very effective way of presenting your opinion without offending someone.

For instance, if someone tells you that their interpretation of something is _____, offer your view by saying something like: “That’s an interesting point, but here’s something else to think about ...”

This way, you’re affirming their viewpoints before suggesting yours, and you’re suggesting it as a question instead of a statement of truth.

5. Watch Your Tone

Everyone knows that the tone in which you say something speaks volumes, sometimes more than the statement itself.

Since it can be very difficult to read whether there is judgement, agitation, anger or arrogance in your own voice, practice recording yourself while you’re talking about something that you strongly disagree with.

Really take the time to describe why you disagree with it and listen to the recording after you’re done. It might surprise you at what kinds of hidden messages there are in the tone of your voice.

You’ll also become much quicker to correct your tone and to speak to people with respect, even when you’re disagreeing with them.

6. Know Your Motives

This is probably the most important thing you can do for relating with people whom you disagree with: know your motives.

Really stop and ask yourself whether you are disagreeing with the person or if you’re trying to be heard and understood.

Most of the time, people will continue to voice opposing opinions if they don’t feel that they are being heard.

If they continue to feel that they’re not being heard or understood, they sometimes start belittling the other person’s viewpoints just to “get back at them.”

Really search yourself and find out whether you are voicing your opinion for the sake of contributing to the interaction, or if you just want someone to hear you and understand you.

TIP: If you have strong opinions that are getting you into arguments with other people, it might be a good idea to find out why you feel so strongly about them.

Most often, defensiveness towards others is because of inner conflict. Working these kinds of things out can make your interactions with other people much better.

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