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Forgiveness may be the last thing on your mind after someone has wronged you. It is so much easier to wallow in hate, anger and nurture thoughts of revenge than to dust yourself up and learn to forgive.
Especially if the offender is not asking for forgiveness. It might even feel good or contribute to your identity being the one hurt. Forming a major part of who you are and telling everybody all about it.
It can feel satisfyingly self-righteous! However, refusal to forgive and harbouring bitter resentment will only do more harm than good, especially in the long term.